Signs he's a bachelor for life?

Bachelor for life. Esp since you have hooked up already, and he hasnt pursued you. When a man pursues a woman, (and not for just sex) that shows he is truly interested in getting to know her, and may crave love or stability with her. But only when HE feels ready, not when a woman "thinks" he's ready. I know this barely makes sense, but its true. This guy is doing all those better lifestyle choices so he can land the younger women. That's the only purpose in that. he knows he's getting older and slower and has to compete with young men who get laid anytime they want, so he has to "work harder" at it. In fact, married men get "comfortable", and drink more, gain a little weight etc. because they are comfortable in their relationship. I know this isnt always true, but most of the time it is. My advice is that if you want to keep hooking up, do so. But only for hookup sake, nothing else. And make him wear protection. Otherwise this guy would have lost my interest a long time ago... He really has nothing to offer, and that's not an attractive trait. Plus, if a guy talks to me about other women and conquests, there is no other faster way to lose my attention. Good luck ;)